Sometimes getting fired is not such a bad thing……………

by Kevin on April 16, 2010

Kevin Montgomery at Hopetoun House in Scotland-Sept. 2000

Yesterday was the 10th anniversary of the first time I set foot in the United Kingdom-and a turning point in my career, and more importantly, my life.
After my time with A&M Records, and five years in Los Angeles……..I moved back to Nashville at the behest of A&M to record for the Nashville division. I knew it wouldn’t work, so subsequently asked our of my record deal, publishing deal, and any “deal” really……and began a 5 year period of pushing carts at Sam’s(6 months), banquet serving at Opryland Hotel (2 years), delivering papers for the Tennessean (2 years, 7 nights a week, all night), and valet parking (4 years)-as you can see……the timeline means that many times I had two jobs.
During this time I got “I Won’t Close My Eyes” recorded by Martina McBride’s Evolution cd after seeing her producer Paul Worley in the parking lot of Sam’s one day. I also got a deal of sorts with Decca Records. They folded five months later. During one period I worked all night long delivering papers and then co-produced an artist on Universal Records-mostly on 3 hours of sleep a night.
So, here I was. In debt from the fallout of the A&M days……….working my butt off, and with not much of a plan. I was happy though.
I knew I had to figure something out quick.
So, as luck would have it…….I got myself fired from my valet manager’s position. I was the manager of 4 or 5 guys. I worked alongside them. Our boss was stealing tip money from us, and I confronted him on it. We called him “Fat Tony”-primarily because he was fat, and his name was Tony. A few days later, after warning me “not to bite the hand that feeds you”, he fired me. I think my reply to him was “my hands feed me biatch.”
Either way, I had been working six days a week valeting at the hospital, and five nights a week at Jimmy Kelly’s restaurant, so in one fell swoop my income was gone-I was later rehired after the main boss heard the whole story.
I remember going home that day. Jobless……freaking out…….feeling like a loser. At that moment I decided to go to England.
In the months prior, I, along with help from my friends had made “Another Long Story”, and whenever I would play a show in Nashville folks from England would show up. Bingo! I MUST have some sort of following there?
I had sold my beloved truck, and was bicycling to and from work so that I could pay for a “promotion” guy to work “Another Long Story” in the UK market. He basically did nothing, but was happy to take my money. So, I started doing his job. A week later I started getting airplay on Bob Harris’ BBC2 program. This gave me my start.
I had BBC airplay, but couldn’t find a booking agent to book a tour in the UK. Nothing.
So, the very first email I ever sent out was to a guy named John Graveling. A school teacher in England who was a Bob Harris fan. He had given me his card a few months earlier after a show at the Bluebird Cafe. After a few weeks of emails…….I finally said, “why don’t you book the tour?”……….he said, “I’ve never done that before,” and I replied, “so!?”
SO, two months later I flew to the UK for the first time. I had $100 to my name. I did 11 dates. The first show was at Chamber’s Bar in Glasgow, Scotland. We did a live session on Bob Harris’ BBC2 show. We had good crowds every night of the tour, and it was a completely life-changing experience. The crowds actually listened…….no talking……and they were educated on the music. I knew I had to come back.

The Summer Nights in the Country poster-Sept. 2000

In September of 2000 we called up a festival called Summer Nights in the Country to see if I could be on the bill. It was a long shot, but when John called them, they said, “wow! we just heard his song on the radio and had made a note to try to find who booked him,”……..so we succeeded in getting a slot. Little Feat, Emmylou Harris, Steve Earle…………an incredible bill.
Robert Reynolds and Paul Deakin from The Mavericks were the rhythm section, and Pat Buchanan filled in on guitar. We subsequently toured the UK for three weeks. It was the first “band” tour, and that spurred me to form Kevin Montgomery and the Roadtrippers with Robert and Paul forming the core of the group.

Pat Buchanan, Paul Deakin, Paul McCartney, Kevin Montgomery, Robert Reynolds, and Jeff Finlin

One of my favorite memories of all of my time touring was the night we played for Paul McCartney at his annual Buddy Holly birthday party. Buddy and my dad were musical partners. A guy named Tony Bramwell had started doing some promo work for me in the UK. Tony was The Beatles road manager, and later an exec at Apple Records, and to this day is a close friend of Sir Paul, so he hipped Sir Paul to my music.
I got word that Sir Paul wanted me to come play the party. We had problem though. First, we had a date booked in Preston, England on Sept. 9th, and secondly, I was the only one invited, and I had a whole group with me that probably wouldn’t appreciate it too much if they were left at the hotel while I went and hung with McCartney.
So, I sent word back that I would come IF I could bring my whole band, plus opening act Jeff Finlin, and John Graveling-six extra people. We got word back that it was fine.
We showed up, cocktail party atmosphere……..about 200 people. McCartney came in after about 15 minutes. When Robert Reynolds saw him……he turned speechless, and stood there transfixed. It is the only time I’ve ever seen Robert Reynolds speechless!!! Ha!
Anyway, after a few minutes Sir Paul noticed us all standing together, decked out in our best duds, and said, “you lot look like a band,” and came right up to us. He spoke of John Lennon and said how he was trying to copy Buddy by wearing glasses, and was just a really pleasant fun guy. He said that he played the Adelphi in Preston-where we were supposed to be that night-with The Beatles. He was everything you would expect him to be.
Later in the evening a fella came up and asked what key I did “Wishing” and “Heartbeat” in. This sent alarm bells up. Uh oh, they were planning on using the house band for my songs instead of MY band! I knew the guys would be very disappointed, so I told them that when Sir Paul called me onto the stage……….just walk up and take the instruments from the house band. I knew it was very important to the guys, and felt like there wouldn’t be any problem once we got going.
So, they called me up, and we all strolled through the crowd together, jumped up on the stage, and very kindly went to the owners of the instruments and asked to borrow them. Pat Buchanan went to the guitar player, who very kindly relinquished his instrument-his name was David Gilmour of a band called Pink Floyd!!!!!!
We played “Wishing” with Paul McCartney and Heather Mills McCartney standing at the front of the crowd…….five feet from us. At the end of “Wishing” I leaned down to Paul and said, “do you want us to play ‘Not Fade Away’?'……..he threw his fist in the air and shouted, “yeah!”-it was an amazing feeling.
We jumped off the stage after our two songs, and the picture you see in this blog was taken. You can see the excitement on our faces.

Kevin Montgomery and the Roadtrippers at Neidpath Castle NYE 2004

These events touched off 10 years of almost non-stop touring in the UK, Ireland, Belgium, Holland, Germany, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, France, Crete, Australia, Japan, two 50 States in 50 Days tours, many years of touring with Al Perkins,  the Roadtrippers, and 160 stamps in my passport.
I may not ever had made the leap of faith without “Fat Tony” firing me. So, thanks Tony.
I also want to sincerely thank the people of the United Kingdom for giving me a chance. My fans/friends in the UK gave me a direction and a focus, and without you I realize my life would not be the same.
I’ve gone a little long here, but I got inspired by the photos………………..Thanks, Kevin

Do you have a “I got fired, and it turned out to be the best thing” story? Please share yours in the comment section below.
“Some Comfort” from the forthcoming in progress new cd………….

{ 32 comments… read them below or add one }

Britrock April 16, 2010 at 2:18 pm

Great story. Congrats Kevin.

JohnRadcliff April 16, 2010 at 2:21 pm

Thanks for sharing that Kevin! I kind of got bits and pieces of this from the last two 50/50 tours. No we know…the rest of the story. Hehehe!

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 2:27 pm

Thanks! I just started thinking about it yesterday, and it struck me how I felt about the past 10 years, and the kindness of all those friends and fans here in the UK………….Kevin

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 2:27 pm

Ha! I laughed out loud when I wrote about “Fat Tony”…………….

Stevie April 16, 2010 at 8:11 pm

I remember the Summer Nights gig at Hopetoun House. It was a typical summers night in Scotland: cold with the threat of rain! I remember heading off to the merchandise tent to pick up your CD. You signed it for me as you went for a wander through the crowd. I still play it regularly. There are some great songs on it.

Thanks for stopping to chat that day and I’m glad you stood up for your team and then decided to take the risk and do what you do do know. The hours probably aren’t better but you get to meet more interesting people.

Keep coming to Scotland.

Neil April 16, 2010 at 3:55 pm

Great Story … Thanks

And you in turn have brought change to lives here as well…. Double thanks to Fat Tony then !!!!

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 4:03 pm

Thanks man. It works both ways I guess. Yes, Fat Tony did me a great service by firing me that day.

jckozzie April 16, 2010 at 4:07 pm

So, when does the documentary come out with all your road clips? :o ) Looking forward to it! Great blog article! I've always wondered how you ended up in Europe (especially Crete), and why the huge following as well, but now it all makes sense. THank you!

Elizabeth Grant April 16, 2010 at 4:20 pm

What an amazing story … as a success coach, I love the elements of embracing what “is,” but also listening to your intuitive nudges, and being bold! AWESOME Kevin!

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 4:26 pm

Well, the plan was to do something on the last two 50 States in 50 Days tours, but it didn't happen…….other than the daily youtube videos. This year I hope we can put together a documentary along the way.
Thanks for the compliment on the post. I guess it shows that when you get real with people, and expose your life……..people respond.

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 4:27 pm

Thanks Elizabeth! Sometimes it is hard to listen to those inner voices, and sometimes we don't have the luxury……..we just have to act. Desperation is a great motivator. As is hunger.

Bob bailey April 16, 2010 at 4:57 pm

Geezzsh! Kevin! What a cool story. I'm really glad you send these to me from time to time. BTW, Paul McCartney is my hero.

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 5:07 pm

Cool. He was a very nice guy. I was impressed with him. He came across just as he does in interviews…….affable, down to earth……..

Sandy Brownlee April 16, 2010 at 6:44 pm

Hi Kevin, I fondly remeber those first days in Glasgow accompanied by John and Doug Pettibone and the House Concert a year or two later with Mike McAdam. So glad it all worked out for you. Looking forward to seeing you again soon. Best Wishes.

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 9:37 pm

Hey Sandy! Well, the jury is still out on whether it has all worked out for me, but i'm healthy, happy, and life has its' challenges, but i'm able to meet them right now……….I reckon that is all that one can ask.
Those were good times. I remember you showing us your office in downtown Glasgow……….thanks for hosting the house concert that time! Ok, now for other things…….you need a profile pic on your facebook account bro!! Get on it!

kevinmontgomery April 16, 2010 at 9:39 pm

Hey Stevie, yes, the hours are tough when you are a traveling singer-songwriter, but they were pretty brutal when I was in Nashville slogging away. Most of the time I had three jobs at a time…………I apply that kind of work ethic not to what I do with music………..I'm glad we met.

Declan Fox April 16, 2010 at 10:19 pm

didn't exactly get fired, in fact I left but with similar consequences. Had high earning permanent and pensionable job as a family doctor in N Ireland but it was slowly killing me (details too tedious to write here) so after second spell of sick leave I resigned; bugger all immediate prospects, reasonable chance of getting a small ill health pension, some insurance money for a few months. And have I had a ball since early 1999 when I officially resigned! Done all kinds of other things, some medical, some not, been visiting Canada regularly for medical work for ten years now. And met Kevin somewhere along the line—review from the English Guardian newspaper of a London Roadtrippers gig, cheap photocopy thereof stuck up in record shop in Omagh to advertise first ever RTs gig in Omagh so we went and were blown away.
And finally I got around to setting up an acoustic gig—-next Thursday in Omagh, Kevin and Sean Snook with local singer Gary Quinn supporting and one of the loveliest things about organising it is how helpful folk are, eg the secretary at the venue loaning us her own PA for the night, Gary bringing along a mike and stand, local newspaper guy giving us a big splash and so many people so looking forward to hearing Kevin sing again.
The steady job can be a killer………and not sure if there is such a thing as a really secure permanent job anymore!

kevinmontgomery April 17, 2010 at 3:11 am

Declan, cool story. So, you just made a good choice for your own health……..makes sense. I tell you……Omagh is one of the best music spots ever. That first gig we did there………at the Top of the Town has to be one of my favorite all-time gigs. The people were crammed in there…….and the were so loud at the end of the night that I thought my ear drums were going to burst……….crazy fun.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but weren't we the first outside band to come in there and do a concert after the bombing? That was my understanding, and I wonder if the gig was good therapy, if there is such a thing after something like that.
It was good therapy for us.

Anonymous April 17, 2010 at 10:31 am

Reading this brought back memories of the first time I saw Kevin play which was in a pub in Chorlton Manchester which might just have been part of that first UK tour. The Manchester gig was booked by Matt, Clint and Simon (Cosmic Americana) and I’m forever grateful to them for introducing Kevin’s music to our family. I have four children and they all love KM.
Doug Pettibone played with Kevin that night and it was a trully memorable, magical night that I didn’t want to end. My youngest son was so enthralled by Pettibone on guitar that night that the following day he formed his own band and somehow persuaded me to buy a Gigson guitar like the one Doug played. I hope one day to have a Gibson just like Kevin’s.
Seen Kevin play many times since but alas missed the last few trips to the Manchester area.

billcullen April 17, 2010 at 11:36 am

Reading this brought back memories of the first time I saw Kevin play which was in a pub in Chorlton Manchester which might just have been part of that first UK tour. The Manchester gig was booked by Matt, Clint and Simon (Cosmic Americana) and I'm forever grateful to them for introducing Kevin's music to our family. I have four children and they all love KM.
Doug Pettibone played with Kevin that night and it was a trully memorable, magical night that I didn't want to end. My youngest son was so enthralled by Pettibone on guitar that night that the following day he formed his own band and somehow persuaded me to buy a Gigson guitar like the one Doug played. I hope one day to have a Gibson just like Kevin's.
Seen Kevin play many times since but alas missed the last few trips to the Manchester area.

kevinmontgomery April 17, 2010 at 11:39 am

Hey Bill! Wow! That was on the first tour. Why do those first tours mean so much? I guess because everything is new and exciting………well, that is cool that your son was inspired by Doug's playing. He is a fantastic guitar player.
I love my Gibson guitar. She has been with me from the A&M days………..really special to me.
Thanks for taking the time to comment!

Ms. Teryl T. April 18, 2010 at 1:55 am

Kevin, you have so many places and things on your sites I just don't know where to start, but I am SOOO glad I joined your email list! You have the most awesome voice,w/ feeling and depth I haven't heard in a very long time. I have always followed my heart and my goosebumps of good music. I'm originally from CO, so was very curious as to what “My partner pulled a knife on me in CO” was. now I finally watched the film and see. GREAT FUN! And that is also where Dan Fogelburg lived, just up outside Boulder. I've seen him live, played & sang to his albums (still have them) and never heard anyone ever mention him! Thank you! He was incredible too! Really wish I could see you live! I live in Chapel Hill, NC and haven't seen anything yet. But follow you, read when I get your emails and I JUST LOVE YOUR VOICE, LYRICS, HOUSE PARTIES (I asked what that was) and I always leave wanting more. Try the Art Center in Carrboro, NC. If you ever get here, PLEASE LET ME KNOW! BIG FAN!!! Listen to you while I create as I did with Dan, McCartney, etc. Jill is amazing too! THANK YOU!!!!! Teryl T.

rennloaloren April 18, 2010 at 4:26 pm

As with Declan I didn't get fired but I was working as a driver and site manager for the Saddleback Valley YMCA when one of the vans once again broke down. I took the kids to the office of my nearby old high school and waited for one of the chiefs from SVYMCA to show up, asses the situation and make arrangements for a replacement van.
Cricket (that was her actual given name and somewhat ironic given the circumstances of this post and blog) came and saw that I was a bit fed up with the situation and asked me why I didn't pursue my music more fervently (my fellow workers and supervisors from the Y had seen me play with my band at a local beach club a few weeks prior) “as she would if she had my talent.” She also said that all the staff that had seen my band thought it was really good and something special. I replied that I was very thankful that they thought I had noticeable level of talent but that talent alone never paid the bills. When I got back to the office the other staffers echoed Cricket's sentiments saying I didn't need to quit working to pursue the music because they had part-time positions that I could shift to if I wished. I did just that and never looked back. Within a year of leaving the world of full-time employment I had a recording contract with CBS/SONY and have been able to make a living (albeit scant at times no doubt!) from my music and songs either singing, playing or writing or playing countless clubs live but always working with music as my primary sole source of income. I am extremely lucky and priviledged to have led and to continue leading such a charmed life.

Among the many encouraging voices who have helped me on my way I have the urging of a Cricket to thank for ALL of that!

kevinmontgomery April 18, 2010 at 10:59 pm

Sometimes that is exactly what we need. A little push.

kevinmontgomery April 18, 2010 at 11:05 pm

Thanks Teryl! Are you lving in NC now?
Yes, I love Fogelberg's music. I probably would never had Al Perkins play on my first record if it weren't for the work he did on Fogelberg's “Run for the Roses” and “Longer Than”………amazing chiming steel.
When my producer Ed Cherney said, “do you know Al Perkins?”……….I didn't know the name, but I knew his work when it was referenced.
That brought on a 15 year musical union…….we started playing together in '93………all because of Fogelberg.
Let me know about the arts center!?

declanfox April 21, 2010 at 5:41 pm

Yes I think you're right about being first outside band post bomb—for years during the troubles non-Irish bands just avoided both bits of Ireland like the plague, largely due to the murder of several members of the Miami showband—then things improved a lot then we had the Omagh bomb. That night in Top of the Town was soooo special. We were stuck behind a pillar and my visual memories were of John P sniffing his armpit after one blazing solo, Al standing up with his Tele near the end and our kid's headmaster sitting right in front of us. But the music more than compensated. It definitely sold out and that Guardian review, the one of your Borderline gig, helped a lot. Now our kid gigs in that very same room, doing acoustic versions of indie rock songs, full circle or something.
Certainly all kinds of good therapy in there!

Ms. Teryl T. April 21, 2010 at 10:52 pm

Kevin, the people you have played with make me want to sing! You are so lucky. I follow music around like a music junkie. Much harder physically, so this is the best way these days! Awesome times you must have had and are still having. Keep it up, trying to pass it on. Also, are you familiar with my friend Keith Curtis? Actually they (he and wife) turned me onto you! I keep watchin'and listenin'. and the bank plays on……..still trying to get you to the ART Center in Carrboro, NC. Stay awesome! Teryl

kevinmontgomery April 22, 2010 at 1:34 am

Wow, I didn't know about the Miami showband thing? What happened?

davidbrianpatterson April 28, 2010 at 4:02 pm

I can definitely relate to this post thanks for sharing it. I recently lost my job because management decided to stab me in the back – I am in good shape to take my time in my job search, so maybe this is the freedom I need to help me find happiness.

kevinmontgomery April 28, 2010 at 8:10 pm

David, I would imagine it is. You don't really want to work with people like that anyway. You have one life to live. I hope you find that happiness! Enjoy the journey!

drowningboy May 7, 2010 at 5:31 pm

What a great, great story!!!

kevinmontgomery July 10, 2010 at 9:36 am

Thanks Bill! Sorry just now approving this…….don't know how I missed it!!!! Thanks for the kudos. Pettibone is a beautiful player.

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