Comments on: A 20 second encounter that made me think…………

By: Richard Wilson

Richard Wilson — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 12:41:40 +0000

Marietta Chik-Fil-A! Sounds prty good! Right next to a breakfast buffet here in Tokyo.
Richard W. – same as last comment.

By: Richard Wilson

Richard Wilson — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 12:39:49 +0000

That's a good one! Wish I could have been there. My sister and 1 nephew are in Marietta too! Small world!

By: kevinmontgomery

kevinmontgomery — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 23:29:11 +0000

Janice,
That is what life is all about. Connecting and learning………..that man had an effect on me that day………had to tell the story.
Kevin

By: Janice Meeks

Janice Meeks — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 09:24:53 +0000

Kev, this story made me cry. Too many times you see others treat people with disabilities rudely or as if they had no feelings. I am so glad to hear you stopped to listen and that he touched your heart. I have a dear friend who's son is just like this man and so many times I have heard her say, “People just need to take the time to get to know him or just listen to him”, just as you did this man. Thank you!!!!
This man could see your struggle and took the time to let you know he would pray for you, That must have been one heck of a blessing to you. Your story was a blessing to me. Thanks for sharing!

By: jean1113

jean1113 — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 12:40:48 +0000

Isn't it amazing how powerful a simple act of kindness can be, the power it has to change our day? Thanks for sharing this.

By: kevinmontgomery

kevinmontgomery — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 03:00:13 +0000

Janet,
I've met some fantastic people with “disabilities”………I put them in parentheses because I'm not sure their so-called disabilities are actually that at times. Many times they are particularly talented in one area……..it's up to us to find that and encourage that.
Thanks for commenting! Kevin

By: Janet Lyn

Janet Lyn — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 22:20:47 +0000

Just found this blog. Thank you for sharing and for your kindness to that sweet man.

I taught children w/learning disabilities and was always fiercely protective of them. They struggled w/reading, writing and math but were amazing, creative artists so we learned reading, writing and math sometimes by writing songs, drawing, dance and drama in my class. Wonderful kids. I learned so much from them.

I appreciate so much when people show compassion for one another. We need more of that. You reminded us of that, too.

By: studiosinger

studiosinger — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 21:26:29 +0000

Well done, Kevin…your thoughts about Chick Filet. Thast's one reason I've freqented them and Publix all these years.

By: studiosinger

studiosinger — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 13:26:29 +0000

Well done, Kevin…your thoughts about Chick Filet. Thast's one reason I've freqented them and Publix all these years.

By: kevinmontgomery

kevinmontgomery — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 19:41:16 +0000

Jacqui,
Thank you for saying that. It has been a pleasure to get to know you through the years. YOU are the powerful spirit to get on with it!
I would even say that from what I can see…….you are NOT disabled. You may have your struggles, but you are rockin'
I hope I see you in Glasgow at Tut's or Annisland……….Annisland might be better for you.
Talk to you then and thanks for commenting!

By: kevinmontgomery

kevinmontgomery — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 19:38:34 +0000

I like it.

By: jaxtoots

jaxtoots — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:38:56 +0000

I had the pleasure of meeting Kevin and his band, some two years ago. I was a litle nervous and shy, but that was no excuse for somehow managing to blurt out my medical history: I have a chronic nerve pain condition, and had recently been fitted with a spinal chord implant. Why I would tell a band about me..I have no idea…I'm blaming the drugs! I never even told my own parents for 10years! But 26years of high levels of pain, later, I guess I was struggling. However Kevin was lovely and sweet then and each time I've met him; remembering specifically about my difficulties. You see I don't look disabled, I'm lucky to be able to still go out for a few hours, and pretend I'm alright. Thankfully, Kevin and the guys allowed me to do that and have some fun. So I am grateful that he found some comfort from such a sole. Kevin you are a true spirit…as is reflected in your beautiful songs. Keep well my friend x

By: Gary

Gary — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 13:24:51 +0000

This may sound a bit corny but I believe in the honesty of the following statment

” Its not the minutes in life that count,Its the moments”

By: Kevin Montgomery

Kevin Montgomery — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 12:23:18 +0000

Thank you guys for these comments. They have made me think even more.

By: Wendy Brusnahan

Wendy Brusnahan — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 11:40:16 +0000

Kudos to YOU, Kevin, for not giving the knee-jerk, reflex reaction of discomfort and avoidance that a great many people do when approached by challenged people. It was, I’m sure, equally important for him to interact and touch lives with you for that moment. In the wider world, small steps are taken and great differences are made by acts such as that. Those were a critical 20 seconds in shaping a world where everyone is embraced and it defines our humanity.

By: Wendy Brusnahan

Wendy Brusnahan — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 11:40:00 +0000

By: Neil Newton

Neil Newton — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:26:48 +0000

If one thing life has taught me it’s to not have any sterotyped prejudice’s about disability, race, creed , religion etc… I glad that companies such as Chick-a-fila have also followed that belief. I, for one, would be happy to visit one of their stores the next time I was in the USA. That gentlemans act has not only made an individual happy but has helped bring others to his employer… Other businesses should take note…

Nice Story – Thanks

By: Neil Newton

Neil Newton — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:26:00 +0000

Nice Story – Thanks

By: Erika

Erika — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 11:18:34 +0000

Chick-Fil-A is a great company to work for. Our two oldest are high schoolers and both work there. The work ethic, integrity and values at the company’s core is very apparent most every time I visit any CFA store. What a kind gesture from that man! It’s the little things in life…

By: Erika

Erika — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 11:18:00 +0000